Advice on how to get my ex boyfriend back?
My ex and i dated for 3 years and 4 months, we’re both 17 years old and we live right down the street from each other. We were each others first boyfriend/girlfriend/first kiss/first love. first everything. He told me every single day that he loved me, even the night before we broke up. He said we should take some time off from seeing each other because he felt like his life is going crazy and he didn’t want me to get dragged into it. Well, last night and tonight, my friend and i were outside and he started to walk his dog (HE NEVER WALKS HIS DOG) and this was at around 11:00 pm both nights, kind of late. He walked past us about 3 times and he looked at me a few times. Could that mean he wanted to see me? How could i get him to miss me or want to talk to me? (we have NOT spoken to eachother since we broke up, but he said happy birthday to me) PLEASE HELPI WANT HIM BACK.
I’m going through kind of the same thing right now. me and my ex just broke up 4 days ago after 2 years together and I want him back so bad. I believe that there is a way he will come back. You have to be strong and remember NOT to talk to him! I know how you feel, like you want to all the time. Give him time to miss you and realize what he lost. He WILL be back! Dont listen to all these negative people!!! If you love someone FIGHT for them! Dont give up! If you ever need to talk you can message me!
Good luck!
An ex is and ex for a reason, just ponder that. it’s like goin back to your table scraps
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just teaxt him one day and be like whats up…hows summer casual things like that…………….
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ex’s are ex’s for a reason. you will fall in love more then once in your lifetime trust me. at 17 its hard for you to understand exactly what I mean, just because you haven’t experienced it yet, but believe it or not you will meet someone else that you care about equally if not more. if in a few years you guys still want to be together then you might have something. but don’t read to much into things, you only get one chance to be young, so go be young.
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That’s cute! You can never give up on your first love. He probably does want to talk but doesn’t know how to approach you. Next time you see him just say hi and asks how he’s doing? or say something sarcastic to lighten the mood. The only thing is you might have to start from the bottom again and work yourself up. gradually start texting and flirting again, like you two are barely meeting. If he shows that he is still into you then you already know where to go from there. You know when he is lying and his weakness’s. To answer your question thoroughly: Yes he is looking to talk to you or even that he misses you! He made a small first move and now it’s your turn.
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Let it rest. HE was the one who broke it off. HE is the one who has the issues. It is not going to help you to sit and hyperanalyze the tea leaves, wind direction, look on his face, multiplied by the days of the week and the number of items in your last grocery list. The ball is in HIS court. It will not not not serve you at all to be hanging on his every last word or glance. It is not healthy.
Live your live, and don’t worry about him. You are 17, and need to move on with your future, and not allow yourself to hang in a state of suspended animation on account of ANY guy.
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Well, like someone said before me an ex is an ex for a reason. I’ve recently got back in contact with an ex who i haven’t spoken to in a few years, and my bf said that an ex was an ex for a reason. And it’s true. Just because you have an ex doesn’t mean you can’t talk to them. But obviously, your bf broke up with you for a reason, and you need to acknowledge that. Some people do rekindle their romance, but if he’s not interested in you anymore then you can’t force him to get back with you. I’m sorry hun, but he probs said happy birthday out of kindness, anyone would. Even I would and I’m a stranger to you. Just try and move on with your life and don’t dwindle on one person. You’re only 17! Plenty more boys out there to love and kiss
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I’m going through kind of the same thing right now. me and my ex just broke up 4 days ago after 2 years together and I want him back so bad. I believe that there is a way he will come back. You have to be strong and remember NOT to talk to him! I know how you feel, like you want to all the time. Give him time to miss you and realize what he lost. He WILL be back! Dont listen to all these negative people!!! If you love someone FIGHT for them! Dont give up! If you ever need to talk you can message me!
Good luck!
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i was in an almost 5 year serious relationship with my high school sweetheart. it was the most painful thing when we parted. if its meant to be its meant to be. if not dont let it rule your life sweety. maybe hell come around.
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times is hard.
dont you just hate those other people always saying your so young you will fall in love again.
ok look at today world, love is not what it use to be, alot of people think love is physical,
hello their is more than that to love,
you guy friend, yeah he is missing you right now, what do you expect, just talk to him, tell him ok your life is gonna be hecka crazy right, so why cant we be friends? if somthing bothering you you should just give me a call, i will always listen. have a i ever judged you ?
then see what happens
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Act like nothing is wrong. They’re not going to want you back if you’re acting depressed. Make sure you’re laughing a lot and pretending to have a good time. This is so hard because of the break up depression.
You need to make them come crawling back to you. By taking advantage of very specific psychological "hot buttons", you can cause your ex to want you back. It’s actually not even that hard if you know what specific buttons to push.
You find more about using psychology to win them back here http://www.sodahead.com/living/how-to-get-your-ex-back—10-mistakes-that-you-should-not-make/blog-365563
When your ex gets back in touch, DO NOT start talking to them about your relationship right away! Even if they desperately wants you back, they’ve probably not ready to talk about the break-up. Instead, pretend as if you had never dated and treat them purely as an old friend.
This will help you put them at ease and allow you to gradually nudge them towards reconciliation rather than running the risk of scaring them away.
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http://www.sodahead.com/living/how-to-get-your-ex-back—10-mistakes-that-you-should-not-make/blog-365563