how can i get my ex-boyfriend back?
its very hard for me to get over my ex boyfriend. i really am tryin to get over him but it seems that i cant. we’ve dated for a year and i cant seem to get him out of my mind or my heart. i looked at other peoples questions about my problem and it doesnt seem to make sense to me. can someone please?
just move on, and that doesn’t mean find a new boyfriend, it means learn who you are and to love yourself. once you see how happy you can be without him or any relationship, it won’t matter anymore about all of that silly stuff. the best revenge is success, go out and make something great of yourself and you’ll find a man who can’t live without you, not the other way around. =]
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tell him youve been thinking about him and e will probably say the same
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talk to him and get a friend to ask him if he likes you. thats what i did, and it worked!
good luck.
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tell him u love him
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Hey, try to find someone different. I don’t just mean another man but a different way of thinking. Try someone that’s not at all like your ex but is still a good person.
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Okay, very simple answer to a very simple question. He is your EX………find something to fill your time with, get involved in the community, volunteer. In other words move on. Your heart and mind will heal with time, but it can’t if you are constantly dwelling on the past…..Remember it is the PAST, look to the future!
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ask him to meet you some where that yawl needa talk and ask him if he still has feelings for you and if he does ask if yawl can work it out if not you have to relize that eny time your with a person for a long amount of time your gonna keep feelings for that person.
goodluck hun =]
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just move on, and that doesn’t mean find a new boyfriend, it means learn who you are and to love yourself. once you see how happy you can be without him or any relationship, it won’t matter anymore about all of that silly stuff. the best revenge is success, go out and make something great of yourself and you’ll find a man who can’t live without you, not the other way around. =]
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lots and lots of experience.
I really don’t know what this feels like so this is coming directly from my heart. Go up to him and say I cant stand being away from you Its so hard and if you have to cry don’t hold it in let it out and then say Could we just start all over if he rejects you hes an idiot cause I know I don’t know you but I know everybody in this world has something to offer so go ahead and say that chances are if you really in love he’ll say the same. Don’t try to play hard to get guys hate that stuff how would you feel if you had to do all the work not really that good. GOOD LUCK!!!
Zoe
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im going through the same thing with my ex, we dated for a year and broke up because he thought he didnt want to be in a relationship but yet still cares about me. You must follow one important rule, no contact. I know it will be painful but they WILL come back trust me and they can say alllll they want about how much they dont miss you but you went out for a year, there are still feelings and oh my gosh he will so start to miss you believe me. Mine is slowly coming back, and after you guys do have your first meet up, he wont be able to stop thinking about you and will always make first contact with you. stay strong
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Keep your head up high, and keep moving on. Hes not worth your time, or you! he broke up wuth you, his loss. you can always find better.
In life you will go through multipul relationships, most of them will be stupid and hurt you in the end. But everytime you learn something about you, guys, and what to look out for. eventually you will find the one you’ve been looking for your whole life and you will feel on top of the world, forget about your ex and look for someone else.
Short story ill share cause i was in the same stuation as you.
I was going out with this guy named Ben at the begining of grade 9, in grade 8 i was going out with a total creeper and i dumped him. and when ben asked i basiclly said sure (i didnt even know him at all but i took my chances) Everything in the beging was great, he was real nice and comforting and he’d invite me over which i loved. soon he started getting back into weed (2.5months in) and he was starting to become pre occupied with weed and always wanted it, i could tell cause he was paying less attention to me. so i basicly sepreated myself from him cause he new i hated the fact that he was being taken over by weed. eventually he changed a lot. hes a real dick and jerk now. he broke up with me over fb (he changed his relationship status..) it really buged me cause we never talked after that.
for the last 3 months i couldnt stop thinking about him even though i knew he was a jerk and he wouldnt talk to me. maybe like a month or two after my ex from grade 8 (Matt) wanted to go out again, but i knew he didnt change. then a grade 10 asked me, we went out then i really wasnt up to the idea of getting in a relationship again cause i still loved ben, even though he didnt know. i explained this to the gr 10 and he understood.
Now like a week ago, this other guy Zac(we’ve been friends for the whole year but we never really hung out and we only had one class together) asked me. and because i knew he never had a gf, his father just passed away, hes sorta self concious of his hight, but hes super nice i told him yes. we’ve only been going out for a bit, but i was also very iffy about getting into another relationship cause i still felt i couldnt after Ben. we recently hung out at his place and went to the movies. were getting closer and i now find myself seeing everything ive been missing out on and its funny how ive been wasting my time thinking about a guyy whos a complete jerk, he diserves no girl. now i cant stop thiinking about Zac. its weird. but its soo much better.
Main points.
-stop wasting your time thinking about your ex, hes not worth it your wasting your time
-Move on, have fun, look for new people! (but don’t try and rush it)
-ENJOY SUMMER! great time to look at new guys!
(trust me, your life will be soo much better, just forget about him)
& remember never regret anything that made you smile
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