How can I get my ex Boyfriend back? Help?
So I’ve been with my boyfriend for a REALLY long time and we were so happy I didnt think we’d ever break up. As the relationship got deeper he said that he really loves me and that he wants to marry me. THEN a few days later he broke up with me because he said that "it didnt feel right" because before we went out we were really good best friends and we told each other everything. I was soo sad when he dumped me. I cried for weeks. I know this all just sounds really pathetic and all, but I have no one else to turn to and I love him so much. He’s the only guy for me. I know he still loves me but he’s just to stubborn and he wont admit it! We’re both kinda young, but still, how can I get him back? And I’m sorry if this is kinda long too.
I am going through the exact same thing. I was with my ex since we were 15, now 23. He broke up with me because he wwas afraid that if we didn’t date and exlore life now we never would get the chance to if got married this soon. I love him a lot and want him back so much but he is being stubborn too. I have found that two best ways to try and get him back is A.) Date someone else and B.) Give him the silent treatment for a bit (I did it to my ex and he would call/txt and tell me he felt unmissed, lol). Or, there is C.) Don’t date anyone and just wait it out for a little while. If he doesn’t seem like he cares or is unfathomed by any of these… then move on. Good Luck
It’s clear that he doesn’t want a relationship with you. It hurts, but in time you will get over it.. It’s unhealthy to dwell on the past. He is part of the past now. Time to move on.
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This might be tough, but the very best way is to be happy by yourself and success in life. You can try going out for jogs with your favourite music and getting toned to look HOTTT. Guys always tell me they crave ex girlfriends back when they see they’re happy and independent.
Also, this will help YOU mature and become a bigger person and not dependent on someone else. Be strong and keep your head up and smile. Time also heals everything. Day by day it’ll start to feel less like a huge deal.
Be confident, you rock!
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I am going through the exact same thing. I was with my ex since we were 15, now 23. He broke up with me because he wwas afraid that if we didn’t date and exlore life now we never would get the chance to if got married this soon. I love him a lot and want him back so much but he is being stubborn too. I have found that two best ways to try and get him back is A.) Date someone else and B.) Give him the silent treatment for a bit (I did it to my ex and he would call/txt and tell me he felt unmissed, lol). Or, there is C.) Don’t date anyone and just wait it out for a little while. If he doesn’t seem like he cares or is unfathomed by any of these… then move on. Good Luck
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Coming from a guy, I have to agree with the girls here. If he states it doesn’t feel right, he is having second thoughts on the whole thing. If he really wants to get back with you, he will be back. But don’t wait around either, you need to focus on yourself and take care of you now. Continue to be his friend but don’t act desperate. If it’s meant to be it will.
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ci_WrhHe_mE