how can i get my girlfriend back?
my girlfriend and i broke up. we dated for a year and two months. over the past month or two, i know i have been getting on her nerves. Naturally, my jealousy comes into play sometimes and I know it got to the point where she was tired and frustrated of dealing with it. I have been really immature and I am fully aware that I have messed things up. I know that I am capable of improving and maturing and that if given a second opportunity, I could prove this to her.
Does anyone know how I should go about winning her back? Do I need to give it time and wait? I feel like if I do, she will slip away. But I also feel like talking to her regularly now will give her no space and wont allow her to think about things.
To be more specific, I have been too over protective without any reason to be that way. I care so much and it has manifested itself in immature and overprotective behavior that she is completely undeserving of. I have learned my lesson and would do anything to have an opportunity to make it work with her.
Wait a day or two, then I would just tell her the thing you just told us about how you’ve been "really immature and messed things up." Apologize and take the whole blame of it. Say how things will be different in the future. And do the whole spiel IN PERSON. Not over the phone or Facebook or anything like that.
give her a little time then try & prove yourself to her however you can especially by being there for her & helping her out with anything you can. don’t do it JUST to win her over it has to be consistent.
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Unfortunately you can’t get someone back unless they want to go back. I don’t know what you did or why you were so jealous but I’d guess you broke up and she’s seeing someone else? I don’t know. Sounds like you are bugging her. Your post is vague. Actions speak louder than words. If you are getting on her nerves then back off.
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Wait a day or two, then I would just tell her the thing you just told us about how you’ve been "really immature and messed things up." Apologize and take the whole blame of it. Say how things will be different in the future. And do the whole spiel IN PERSON. Not over the phone or Facebook or anything like that.
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Instead of calling/text your girlfriend write her a letter/note relating your feelings. This way you are giving her space , but she will also knowing you care. Say what you have stated here "your jealousy…given a second chance. " An open honest letter,-not an email- will let her think things out without any pressure. Give her some time to think things through, before you approach her. Good Luck!
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pull her aside one day. ask nicely of course.tell her that you mean no harm and you don’t want to say anything negative that you just want to talk. And let it out! all of it! tell her how you feel. tell her how you miss her and how you’ve realized that you really don’t know what you had until she left. tell her that if she should ever give you a second chance that you need help improving yourself with the relationship ( its true though. you don’t know what you do wrong she does, she can help you improve yourself and you can help her) Tell her that you will care for her and love her and give the relationship all you’ve got because you want it back that much! and really mean it
if you mean it she will know.
good luck.
ps: if you really care about her please try. don’t go through all this trouble for nothing. thank you
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Alright here’s the deal you get an orangotang mmk? I don’t know how you’re going to get him just do it, it’s not my problem, so you and Clyde (that’s the orongotang’s name, every arongotang’s name is Clyde that’s the way things work), you and Clyde do everything together, go everywhere together, eat everything together etc. So you guys talk the loudest, laugh the loudest, and do everything together, at this point the town begins to buzz "You went out with the dude with Clyde?" "You broke up with the guy and Clyde?" Now she will begin to call you or text you, most likely call, the conversation SHOULD go a little something like this
"Hello?"
"Hey, what’s up, I was thinking we should hang out sometime?"
"Right, who’s this?"
"She will say whatever her name is…We dated earlier"
"Alright, I will see-ohh, got to go Clyde is making mohitoes"
Then hang up, at this point the upper hand is yours. You can let her fade slowly into your life or whatever you want with it. Just give it time.
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