How do I get my ex-girlfriend back?
How do I get my ex-girlfriend back? She broke up with me but I still love her. She said we can still be friends but I want more. How do I get her back? Don’t say find someone else because I don’t want anybody else. I really miss her and I can’t get over it.
It’s amazing what you can cope with when you have no choice. You WILL get over her but it’s going to hurt like a bítch in the meantime. There’s nothing more I can say, you just have to ride it out.
First of all, gather yourself. Calm down. Think LOGICALLY about why she left you in the first place and why you want her back (and "because i miss her" doesn’t count).
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It’s amazing what you can cope with when you have no choice. You WILL get over her but it’s going to hurt like a bítch in the meantime. There’s nothing more I can say, you just have to ride it out.
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it hurts like a mofo k? everyone goes through that part of missing them first off wait a few weeks more like months k? and situate ur self and think why did she break up? thats the most important so then you know and can improve urself. u want to wait also because she doesnt necessarily want to be back with you so soon k? they also want time to themselves. ride it out, analyze and see what you want most cuz the most important for rite now is YOU
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First of all you have to determine what made her split up with you if you possibly can.
Was it some specific event, or something you did or said? Or was it the culmination of a series of events in which your relationship deteriorated to the point where she decided she wanted out?
If you can put your finger on one or more specific causes then you next have to ask yourself if you can do anything to ensure that those events never happen again. For example, if she didn’t like some aspect of how you treated her then make sure you can change that permanently.
Next, write her a letter. Not an email or text message, but a letter written in your own hand (not printed out) on expensive looking writing paper, and addressed to her in a high quality envelope.
Tell her that you’re sorry for causing her to leave and for any distress you may have caused her (even if you think it wasn’t your fault) and express the hope you may still be friends. Say you are devastated by her leaving, but that you don’t blame her. Say that you intend to leave her alone and not contact her for, say, a month, but that you would like to write to her again after that time if that’s okay with her.
She’s very unlikely to object to that, and will probably be glad to know she’s not going to be pestered by you, as happens in some cases. At the end of the month, or whatever period you’ve specified, write to her again and suggest a meeting time and place as you’ve some news for her (make sure this is genuine as if it’s not it may backfire on you).
This will take some patience on your part but it’s probably the only way. You’ll have to take it from there after that. There’s a template of some letters for you to copy or model your letter on at the resource given.
And when you see her next, give her a big smile – she’ll probably smile back.
Philip Gegan
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http://www.getbacktogetherforever.com