I need to get my girlfriend back!!! How do i get her back?
i called her a slut,whore,gay,and a b**** but i really love her and she was pissing me off and thats why i called her all that she is the love of my life and i runed it i am such a f****** jerk to her but i want to make things better and she wont talk to me anymore i need some really good advise!!!!!!!!!
Okay, this is how you’re going to do it Cal..
First you have to give her some time. I’m not talking about weeks because then she’ll think that you don’t care and she’ll say to herself, "Well, I guess I he didn’t want me back that bad." Instead, give her a few days. For example, if it happened on Friday, give her a call on Tuesday. Give her the weekend to think about what happened. Let her just enjoy her weekend shopping or whatever she does and it would only be a matter of time that she’ll realize spending the weekend alone without you really sucks. Sunday night she’ll probably think to herself that you are an a*shole because you haven’t called her all weekend and that you were probably out with your friends doing something fun and talking to girls. She’ll then think, damn, I can let him go because I really like this guy and someone else will scoop him up. She’ll understand you probably didn’t mean it and recognize that we all make mistakes. Mondays suck for everyone so don’t call her Monday. Tuesday is the day where you’re like f**k, it’s only Tuesday?? She notice the week going by real slow since she hasn’t spoken with you. Call her Tuesday like around 7pm. If she doesn’t answer, text her. Tell her that you want to get together and talk about a few things. Tell her that if it is really over, then you want to give her some stuff back and you want to end it good. (Don’t worry, that’s not what you want but your trying to play with her emotions a bit and reel her in.) When you guys get together, spill your heart out! You want her back and you made it this far so you better make it worth it. Women LOVE flowers! Don’t be cheap. By her her favorite kind and her favorite chocolate or candy would help also. Show her that your care about her and you know what she likes. Take her to a nice resturant. Tell her that you are sorry for hurting her feelings but you were upset and kind of make her understand why. Make her feel like you had the right to be upset and make it a little confusing so she can just be like, "I don’t even know what you’re talking about but whatever." Somehow, it will suddenly not be that important anymore. It’s not over but she had the time to think about a few things she couldn’t with you up her a*s. What is important is that you both are sharing the same space now. Tell her that you apologize once again and you want to put this behind you because that’s not who you really are. Tell her you love her. Look into her eyes and tell her that you really mean it and that you don’t want to see her the way you did that day again. Women think a lot and believe it or not, most good women dream about getting married and having children all the time. She probably sees the potential in you and will definitely accept your apology.
It’s not over then..
You’ll probably have to go home and hit it like you never hit it before! 
Bonus** Most women LOVE oral too 
Have fun and good luck!
well all u have to do is try to talk to her and explain why u acted that way and shell probably understand
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Go to a libary and pick up anything that can teach you the english language.
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well, TROLL !
i think if you reaaly loved her you would let her go.
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you tell her that you are sorry and that you get back together you won’t call her those things anymore.
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you do need help!!! i have had alot of boyfriends that have done that to me… send me an email (chelseabishop13@yahoo.com) and we’ll talk about it
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Well, first I suggest that you apologize deeply and sincerely. Let her know that you just got mad and blew up and that it won’t ever happen so immaturely like that again. Send her flowers and a card. But still make sure you talk with her. Don’t expect the gift to buy her love back either.
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You are a jerk, if a lad said those things to me he would just be meeting the palm of my hand.
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YOU HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO RIGHT TO CALL HER THAT AND WHY THE HECK SHOULD SHE COME BACK TO YOU? WHAT ARE YOU CRAZY? WHY WOULD ANY GIRL WANT TO COME BACK TO A GUY WHO IS ALWAYS SUCH A JERK TO HER? SHE IS OBVIOUSLY NOT THE "LOVE OF YOUR LIFE" CUZ U DON’T TREAT SOMEONE YOU LOVE THAT WAY!
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Tell her exactly what you told us. But also tell her that you will never treat her that way again and that if you do, it is over between you too. But if i were you i would think about if she were to do what pissed you off again, if you would react the same way. If your answer is that you would, then i would seriously reconsider wanting to get back together with her.
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Oh no….do you really think some one you cursed out is going to come pleading back? NO. What you NEED to do is apologize and tell her that you was aggravated and exploded. You also need to show her the question you wrote.
Oh yeah… to get her attention…Bother her
Trust me… she’ll eventually give up.
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I hate to say it, but I don’t blame her for not wanting to talk to you. Give her some time, and space to breath and cool down. Then apologise as much as you can, promise her that you will never treat her like that again. And if you treat her like that again, accept that you guys probably aren’t right for one another.
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I would ask you to consider what it was that had you so upset and also consider that she really became a victim of your hot headiness that you developed long before she arrived on the scene. She only triggered something inside you that is still lingering from the past. Then maybe you can get your respect back at the very least. But do not count on her landing in your arms again.
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as a girl myself, and also after being put through this situation, I’d have to say that you’re gonna have to get her alone. Somehow. My boyfriend did it by having one of his friends (that were really cute) ask me out to dinner and my ex secretly came along. When I went to the bathroom, my ex followed me and waited outside the door. When I came out he stopped me to talk. I listened. And what he said was that he was a stupid @$$hole and stuff and that he would never say it again. Then he gave me a kiss and stuff.
You just have to be sincere to her. You need to show her how much you really do love her. And remind her that she isn’t anything like any of the things you called her. If she really loved you before then she will understand. I can’t garuntee you’ll get back together but I can garuntee that if she really loved you then she would at least stop ignoring you and start being around you more. But if she still doesn’t forgive you, then she just isn’t the one, but then again she might still love you, but you’ll just have to earn the full forgiveness. and by the way me and my ex got back together and have been with each other ever since
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That’s tough dude. Girls don’t want to be treated like shit. I wouldn’t put up with that bullshit. When someone pisses you off you need to express that in a gentleman like manner. People will respect you for that, believe me. My best friend (who is a guy) wouldn’t call me those things. A boyfriend should be more of a gentleman than a best friend.
You need to get your priorities straight, if u love her. You owe her big time. Talk to her. Make sure she knows you were wrong. And that you are very! sorry.
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Honestly it doesn’t look too good. If she was smart, she wouldn’t get back together with you. If she called you a fag, ass hole or a retard would you stay with her? I wouldn’t beat yourself up or feel guilty though, it only makes it worse. Every one is guilty of doing something stupid in their relationship. Tell her you were being a jerk, that’s not who you really are and you are sorry. Tell her you know you messed up big time, but you want a second chance because you love her and don’t want to let her go. Good luck to you, and seriously I was not trying to bring you down at all. I’m guilty of calling my boyfriend an ass hole and a jerk. I hated myself for it, but I realized I’m human and people make mistakes. If she still says no, at least you did the right thing, and you will find another girl that makes you happy.
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Okay, this is how you’re going to do it Cal..
First you have to give her some time. I’m not talking about weeks because then she’ll think that you don’t care and she’ll say to herself, "Well, I guess I he didn’t want me back that bad." Instead, give her a few days. For example, if it happened on Friday, give her a call on Tuesday. Give her the weekend to think about what happened. Let her just enjoy her weekend shopping or whatever she does and it would only be a matter of time that she’ll realize spending the weekend alone without you really sucks. Sunday night she’ll probably think to herself that you are an a*shole because you haven’t called her all weekend and that you were probably out with your friends doing something fun and talking to girls. She’ll then think, damn, I can let him go because I really like this guy and someone else will scoop him up. She’ll understand you probably didn’t mean it and recognize that we all make mistakes. Mondays suck for everyone so don’t call her Monday. Tuesday is the day where you’re like f**k, it’s only Tuesday?? She notice the week going by real slow since she hasn’t spoken with you. Call her Tuesday like around 7pm. If she doesn’t answer, text her. Tell her that you want to get together and talk about a few things. Tell her that if it is really over, then you want to give her some stuff back and you want to end it good. (Don’t worry, that’s not what you want but your trying to play with her emotions a bit and reel her in.) When you guys get together, spill your heart out! You want her back and you made it this far so you better make it worth it. Women LOVE flowers! Don’t be cheap. By her her favorite kind and her favorite chocolate or candy would help also. Show her that your care about her and you know what she likes. Take her to a nice resturant. Tell her that you are sorry for hurting her feelings but you were upset and kind of make her understand why. Make her feel like you had the right to be upset and make it a little confusing so she can just be like, "I don’t even know what you’re talking about but whatever." Somehow, it will suddenly not be that important anymore. It’s not over but she had the time to think about a few things she couldn’t with you up her a*s. What is important is that you both are sharing the same space now. Tell her that you apologize once again and you want to put this behind you because that’s not who you really are. Tell her you love her. Look into her eyes and tell her that you really mean it and that you don’t want to see her the way you did that day again. Women think a lot and believe it or not, most good women dream about getting married and having children all the time. She probably sees the potential in you and will definitely accept your apology.
It’s not over then..
You’ll probably have to go home and hit it like you never hit it before!
Bonus** Most women LOVE oral too
Have fun and good luck!
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Experience;)