Can someone give me advice on how to get my ex back?
My ex and I have not been together for almost a year now. I’ve been good without her and haven’t even been in contact with her. But about 3 weeks ago I saw her at a bar and I guess you can say emotions that I thought went away came back because I was caught off guard. Now I had a party at my house the other night and I figured I’d call and invite her but she didn’t answer and I left a voice mail inviting her. I didn’t hear back from her but later in the night she showed up and everything seemed to be how they used to with the exception of her and I being like we were together. However she was really cool with all my friends like she had always been before and her and I were socializing and you can say kind of catching up on little things. Now my friend had mentioned to her that we would visit her at her job that she works at where she waitresses. But I mentioned to her that we wouldn’t be able to go that day because we forgot that we had a stag party to go to. Now once I told her that, she said that she would be working the following day and that we can go sometime then if we wanted. So I told her yeah possibly. So today she texted me saying that she got off work early and was making sure if we were planning to go to her job still. But then said if I wanted to still go that she would go to hang out and eat with us. So we ended up going but everything just seemed to be normal. No awkwardness really and at times we were laughing at little inside jokes that we had. She remembered what I liked to eat and even ordered the type of salad that I like when the waiter asked me what type I’d like. I feel like there could be a possibility of something with her in the future maybe near future between us. But I don’t know what or how I should approach it. Not sure where I could go from here. If maybe I should ask her to hang out just us or with other people??? I don’t know but I really need advice or guidance. If you want to contact me directly you can message me on aim at maximusjayrabus or just write on here. Please anyone that can help me, it would greatly be appreciated.
(If you are just going to say move on then please don’t bother writing me. I know that is the safest thing for me to do but I truly feel like there can be a possibility of us getting back together.)
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It sounds like your both interested so try and do more things together and see what happens .You might want to wait a little while before you go out alone that way when it does come up you both will have had time to think about it,and it sounds like you will be together again good luck
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I think she is still interested in you. Take it easy.. at some point , while laughing and talking to her tell her ‘ I have really missed you!" and see what she says.. if she looks at you and says she has missed you too then ask her flat out ‘what can we do about it?". If she ignores the comment or looks uncomfortable tell her that there is no pressure, you just have missed her and that your glad you can be friends and quickly move onto another subject and don’t breach that one again unless she brings it up. Good luck
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You still have rapport with her which is a great first step. Since the time span was a year, with no contact, that’s great grounds for rekindling that old spark.
You have to think back to what attracted her to you in the first place. You don’t want to come off too needy, and at the same time you don’t want to blow her off or blatantly ignore her. I don’t know the whole reason why you broke up, but you want to portray yourself as being okay with the break-up. Even if you’re not. Subconsciously, women want to be chased, and when you’re not at their every call, it bugs them. I am going to try to break this down a little more. If you want to get her back here’s what to do:
Don’t try to make her jealous by hanging out or dating someone else just to make her jealous. It never works.
Don’t ignore her, completely.
If she messages you or contacts you while you’re not available, don’t call 5 minutes later, call tomorrow because you have important things to do. (Even if you don’t, it makes her wait and she’ll be anticipating your call or message, suspense is good) For example "Hey, [ex's name] sorry I missed your call I was [skydiving] (or some other exciting activity)" – The main purpose of this is to let her know you have fun, and you enjoy the stuff you’re doing.
The main focus is that (in her eyes) you want her worrying about you, and you not worrying about her, she will seek that validation from you. And you are NOT entitled to let her have it until you are dating again. Remember she has to earn the right to date you.
A final note, it all starts with you. You attract her, try to remember how you first attracted her. Portray that image in your life today. Always better yourself, join a gym, do something constructive and validating, bettering yourself shows her that you are of higher value, a rare find.
It’s counter-intuitive, but it’s worked for me twice, with two serious relationships.
Good luck friend.
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I was basically in the same situation. Before you do anything, Check out this website. It has many info that tells you exactly what to do to get your ex back. It saved my five year relationship. Hope that helps.
http://tinyurl.com/getexbackk
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