If You Want to Get Your Ex Back – Stop Calling Him
If you really want to win back your love, than you have to train in yourself a will, that you don’t do some things, which push your ex more and more away from you.
And the very important thing is to give each other some time to calm down and to put some thoughts and emotions in order. I understand very well, that you miss your love, that you think, if you don’t do something immediately, he or she will be gone forever. … and so on.
A very common mistake which people do, who want to get ex back, is calling several times per day, leaving messages on the answering machine and sending bunch of e-mails to their ex partner. And doing this you even don’t realize, how much you get on the nerves of your love. He more and more gets a wish to switch off the phone and to delete all your messages, because it all annoys and makes him angry. If it is, of course, your intention, than you are on the right way.
But I am sure, that you are looking for his attention and a chance to get his heart back.
Patience is the main thing, which will deliver you best results on the way of getting your ex back.
That is why, you have to try to switch off your mind to something else. It is difficult, I know, but possible. And you have to do it. Don’t contact your ex for two or three weeks. Let him breath a bit and calm down. It might happen, that he will call you by himself after some time.
Remember, as more you show the interest to your ex as less he wants to see and hear from you anymore. When he understands, that you can live without him, that you keep on smiling and meeting with friends, he gets very often a wish to contact you by himself.
You have to get your self-confidence. You have to look outstanding, better then ever. You should stop crying begging your ex to come back.
After pause of couple of weeks very carefully try to fix with him a short meeting to discuss some things. If he anyway resists, wish him all the best, don’t show, that it makes you sad or angry and give it another pause. When he understands, that you came down, that you won’t cry begging him to come back, then you have a chance that your ex will accept your proposal to meet with you. Keep it short first time, smile and don’t dig too much into the past.
More information of how to get your ex back and what to do further, you can find on http://www.theloverelationship.com/ and visit also http://www.saveloverelationship.com/
Anna Baumgartner
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how yould you tell your ex-girlfriend to stop calling without hurting her feelings?
After the break up, she wanted to be friends. I’ve always believed that some people are not meant to be friends post break up. If it didn’t work then, why should it work now? I care about this girl and wouldn’t want to hurt her feelings, but i don’t think it is going to work out as friends. We are two different beings that do not share the same views. What would you guys do or say to stop her from trying to contact you, without telling her straight out that its not going to work or just stop calling her back when she leaves messages?
just try being friends……and if not, then tell her that u’ve moved on and rather not be friends with her anymore…but compliment her in doing so,
" like your the prettiest girl i know adn i can’t put my feelings behind me with you still being my friend."
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when she call you do not talk to her,say somethıng to do more ımportant thing than talk.do not return call.if ıt does not work,tell her straıght that you can not take thıs relatıonshıp anymore.I thınk she wıll understand ,well … I hope ….
peace
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will not work, straightout works. she has to know where she stands.
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Well, you really only have the two choices: Either you tell her straight out that you don’t think it’s going to work to be friends, or you become evasive–don’t return her calls, always have an excuse to end the converation if you answer the phone, always have plans if she wants to get together, etc. Eventually she should get the message. But, if she decides to ask you point blank, what’s the matter, you better be prepared to tell her the truth. So why not get it over with now.
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tell her exactly what you just told us here. if that doesn’t work, then stop returning her calls. you’re right, some people just can’t be friends after a break up, it sounds to me like she’s still trying to hang onto whatever she can with you cuz she’s just not ready to accept the fact that it’s over with.
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You really have to be a little mean to stop her from calling you. Leave her a message saying that you don’t like her calling as much as she did when you two were together. It’s not the meaning of friends. Once a week is okay. But right now it’s too much cause you guys just broke up. You could always change your phone number.
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I would suggest you just be honest up front. Tell her it is impossible for you to remain friends at this point. If it hurts her feelings, this is what it might take to get your point across, emphasize that you don’t want to hurt her, but this is the way things have to be.. She’ll have no choice but to accept it eventually.
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If you live with other people have them answer the phone and say your not home. Enough of that and she will probably give up. If you have an answering machine keep it on and let her leave a message, your not obligated to call her back…she’s not your girlfriend any more. If worse comes to worse you could very nicely tell her to please not call you any more and be firm about it. If all else fails….just be freinds with her and let her call. Be boring on the phone, just say yes, no, and make sounds like uh huh….make it seem like your busy all the time….good luck.
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If this bothers you this much tell her too stop calling ,but if was me I would start telling her how much fun I was having with this other girl then she might not call so much I am sure she dose not wont to hear this, but u can still be frends
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think about the good time….when u both use 2 hav together……..don ignore her….whenever she call u….u hav 2 pic up the phone….but always remind her that….she is one of ur good friend…..& incase if u hav new gf…..do let her know something about ur ex-gf….like now u n ur ex-gf is good friend……n if it’s possible let ur ex-gf n ur new gf know about each other….4 ur own benifit
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tell her you don’t want to be friends and to stop calling. after a while and she sees you w/ another girl she will want to get back together.
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You have to tell her straight out I learned that you can’t control how someone feels they are in control of their own feelings and they have to learn rejection. You have the control of how you say it to the person.
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Hi there…just wanted to answer your message, but seems like you can’t accept any. Send me your e-mail and I’ll answer you.
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