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My ex and I have not been together for almost a year now. I’ve been good without her and haven’t even been in contact with her. But about 3 weeks ago I saw her at a bar and I guess you can say emotions that I thought went away came back because I was caught off guard. Now I had a party at my house the other night and I figured I’d call and invite her but she didn’t answer and I left a voice mail inviting her. I didn’t hear back from her but later in the night she showed up and everything seemed to be how they used to with the exception of her and I being like we were together. However she was really cool with all my friends like she had always been before and her and I were socializing and you can say kind of catching up on little things. Now my friend had mentioned to her that we would visit her at her job that she works at where she waitresses. But I mentioned to her that we wouldn’t be able to go that day because we forgot that we had a stag party to go to. Now once I told her that, she said that she would be working the following day and that we can go sometime then if we wanted. So I told her yeah possibly. So today she texted me saying that she got off work early and was making sure if we were planning to go to her job still. But then said if I wanted to still go that she would go to hang out and eat with us. So we ended up going but everything just seemed to be normal. No awkwardness really and at times we were laughing at little inside jokes that we had. She remembered what I liked to eat and even ordered the type of salad that I like when the waiter asked me what type I’d like. I feel like there could be a possibility of something with her in the future maybe near future between us. But I don’t know what or how I should approach it. Not sure where I could go from here. If maybe I should ask her to hang out just us or with other people??? I don’t know but I really need advice or guidance. If you want to contact me directly you can message me on aim at maximusjayrabus or just write on here. Please anyone that can help me, it would greatly be appreciated.

(If you are just going to say move on then please don’t bother writing me. I know that is the safest thing for me to do but I truly feel like there can be a possibility of us getting back together.)

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My ex left me because I wasn’t able to see him all the time. He lives 30 minutes away from me, and it was always him coming over to my house, but never me coming to his house. He left me about 2 and half weeks ago. Since then, I have been making every attempt to see him. I suprised him with a bouquet of roses at his work which he liked, I attended his award ceremony, and was very pleased to see me. He has an orchestra concert tonight, and I will be attending it. Afterwards, I wanted to talk to him. Before we leave, we always hug each other. he told me that he still has feelings for me, but they arent as strong as they used to be. Whenever he hugs me, can I kiss him on the cheek? I really care about him, and would like to get him back. Please help.

He is your EX for a reason don’t go there!!
and i think you should go look at some playboy mag’s or something!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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My ex left me because I wasn’t able to see him all the time. He lives 30 minutes away from me, and it was always him coming over to my house, but never me coming to his house. He left me about 2 and half weeks ago. Since then, I have been making every attempt to see him. I suprised him with a bouquet of roses at his work which he liked, I attended his award ceremony, and was very pleased to see me. He has an orchestra concert tonight, and I will be attending it. Afterwards, I wanted to talk to him. Before we leave, we always hug each other. he told me that he still has feelings for me, but they arent as strong as they used to be. Whenever he hugs me, can I kiss him on the cheek? I really care about him, and would like to get him back. Please help.

From what you say here, it sounds like you let him do all the driving AND you didn’t spend as much time with him as he wanted. I am wondering if this is a "gardener and rose" situation, where the gardener does all the work and the rose just sits there being admired.

Now that he’s taken away something you want — which is him — you have predictably reacted by making a lot of effort, and showy effort at that. Roses at work? That’s pretty showy. He probably wanted you to be doing this all along to prove that the affection wasn’t one-way.

I think you guys need to talk. Not after the concert, because he’ll be tired, and he may want to hang out with the people he performed with. Go find him to let him know you came to the concert, but don’t try to have a heavy talk, and don’t force affection on him if he seems resistant.

If he won’t meet you, the phone might be okay. First, tell him that you miss him and you want to be back together with him. Ask him: "Did you leave because I didn’t spend as much time with you as you wanted?"

If the answer is "yes," tell him you’re sorry, and that now you understand how important it is to him, you will try to rearrange your schedule or whatever to spend more time with him. Now ask him: "If I could spend more time with you, would that fix the problem? Would you come back?"

If he can’t give you straight answers to these questions, there’s something else going on. If his answer is complex, or he can’t seem to make up his mind, he may be manipulating you.

Remember that it’s up to him. You cannot force your choices on other people. If he’s done with you, you need to respect that and move on.

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I am about to close on my new house. My husband and I are separated. I was told by the loan processor that my ex has to be on the title of my house because Texas is a community property state. Does anyone know how I can avoid adding his name to the title. Will a Quit claim deed work in this case. He does not have a problem with this if it were an option. I was told to consult my lawyer but I just don’t have one. Thanks for your responses.

Texas is a community property State .. with exception of inheritance.

I know a couple who bought a new house – and the wife did not want her husband on the title – so when it came time to close on the house, the wife proceeded the closing process — however, the process was stopped because the husband had to sign regardless.

If you are just separated – then you are still married to your husband. Get a divorce before you buy. People separate all the time .. then go back together – as if nothing ever happened. In the eyes of Texas – you are still legally married.

It would be wise to contact an attorney to see about special circumstances. More than one legal opinion would be best.

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Me and my ex were dating for about two years. She said she loved me and I loved her. One day she came over to my house and started playing my video games, and she almost erased my Madden file, so I hit her and pushed her out of the way. I guess I gave her a black eye, but I said I was sorry. What can I do to get her back?

seek professional help. hitting a woman over a damn game? PFFFFF buddy you have some issues. Hope that $50 game was worth a 2 year relationship

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